Saturday, June 6, 2015
LADIES AND LATENESS
I have always wanted to give up on some ladies about lateness including myself . It has become an almost constant and alarming issues around . Not that we don't like to be punctual to classes, meetings , gathering or events but we just find ourself being late. Even when we try our best , put our effort to stop , we still end up in it . So I thought I could just do a little digging before concluding on myself about changing .
Isn't it worth the wait too? We look good most times to places and so I think people complaining out there needs to know that we need time to get ready for whatsoever occasion we attend. Moreso ,bathing is a whole lot of job ,due to the fact that we have a lot of matters we attend to (for those that understand better). Picking up clothes to wear is another issue to deal with, shoes to match and bag to fit in ,is a war on it's own, applying make up too has it's own share of it.
While all of these are there to think about, i discovered that they are not the real issue , Infact they can't be counted as reasons for our lateness . Women are just touchy creature, they want to do extra things ,some need extra time to get ready, some are indecisive,they don't know what to wear and so try outfits on before reaching a conclusion on what to wear eventually ,some ladies are attention seekers and do not like to get ready early because they want to look as fresh as possible and hence lateness comes in.
Women generally are programmed to ignore time , lack sense of urgency , have distractions in thoughts and lack poor time management skills . With all of those reasons, none is tangible enough to make us perpetual late comers . Ofcourse not all ladies have lateness as an issue to deal with, I am not the judge here , all I want is to be a better person and also make somebody one.
Being late ,shows you are disrespectful to others, after all those early and waiting are not jobless ,being late shows lack of commitment and shows irresponsibility . Therefore , since lateness is an unconscious habit, let become conscious of time , let's plan not to be on time , that is, let's plan our time before we set out to do the things we plan to do ,let's learn to put ourselves in the shoes of others and above all , let's learn to manage our time and also do the right things at the right time . That old saying ' it's ladies prerogative to be late ' needs to be nullified , We can't be that , we are examples to our children, children to come and generations . We need that change in our society and we are the change for generations to see.
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