OUR BIGGEST FEAR

I am pissed and the best way I can clear my mind is just venting here.  No, nobody got me angry. Am just pissed with myself and the way these things happen around . Something happened recently and I felt my life stopped ( I know you are trying to imagine what could have made me feel that way, well, it's one of those life issues) Why will I take issues to my head in the first place? why will I allow challenges affect my thinking ? It took me days before I realized that things ( I mean life hustle, challenges ) happen like that to people and it just changes them forever. It is just too bitter to experience .

 

My biggest fear use to be failure ( failure in the general sense of it ) although I felt it was normal and then I got to know that people have alot of "fearless things" as their fears, I thought mine was better ,at least nobody wants to be a failure at one point or the other. Examples of those "fearless fears" could actually be ; fear of poverty, fear of failing professional exams that can only be written once ,fear of rejection, fear of water, of air and probably fear of height. Yes,  I call it fearless because to be honest , they are realistic fears but they are less of a fear , even if it eventually happens, should it now take the better part of one's life, or take ones whole life or change orientation about life or cause depression?  And if the fear of death is on anybody's list as their biggest fear which isn't suppose to be at all, then that's the end of it( this is going to be a new write up on its own )...

 I think our biggest fear should be "the fear of loosing Hope" ( maybe I am wrong but I refuse to be corrected because it is just a basic fact) What is life when you loose hope on yourself?  If your biggest fear is failure and you fail, what's next after that?  It shouldn't be depression , it should rather be Hope of a brighter tomorrow, Hope that your next exam would be excellent, hope that another opportunity will come and there's a solution to every problem, hope that with time it will get better. Do not forgot that failure is part of a success story , if you don't believe ask those that made it , they will tell you they failed at one point of it. (Even me,I forgot, i had to remind myself) If one has fear of water and by mistake find himself or herself in the pool, does that mean the person won't struggle to find a way out? I might not have mentioned your own biggest fear, but please what other fear justifies loosing hope ? No matter how we look at it,  life is good and beautiful if we add Hope to our living. A person that loses hope is like a walking corpse , no essence of living ,the person is almost useless to himself or herself , Depression happens and sucidal attempt creeps in ,then death and that's the end of it ( that's not scary , it's what depression can do). Never give up . Have hope . Expect only the best from life and take action to get it ( I Ddnt plan it to be this long ,but you know it's when events, memories , issues happen that one gets inspiration ... And yes I am fine now .Thanks).